I Lost My Ability to Love Myself Initial

Hello.
I have a serious thing to tell you.I used to love everyone more than I loved myself.Doesn’t that sound nice?Indeed.but risky as well.
Let me clarify.

I Gave Too Much

I was always helping other people.Even though I was exhausted, I said “yes.”When I wanted to cry, I smiled.While I felt empty, I made other people happy.
Kindness isn’t that.I’m being forgotten.

Why Did I Do It?

I believed that being kind meant always lending a hand.I believed that I needed to be liked.I therefore gave my heart, time, and energy.
However, I didn’t hold any affection for myself.

The Signs I Was Lost

• Every day I felt exhausted.
• I was depressed, but I had no idea why.
• I was too busy fixing other people to fix myself.
• Even when I gave big, I felt small.
• Have you ever had that feeling?Yes. I agree.

Then I Had a Wake-Up Call

I broke one day.No more phoney smiles.No more saying “I’m fine” when I wasn’t.
“Why don’t I treat myself like I treat others?” I asked myself as I gazed in the mirror.
I made the decision to change that day.

I Started Loving Me

Not in a self-serving manner.in a healthful manner.
When I needed to sleep, I said “no.”I ate my meal on schedule.I wrote myself nice notes.I went for walks. I performed a dance. Just for myself, I laughed.

Loving Yourself Isn’t Wrong

It doesn’t mean you stop caring about other people.It shows that you value yourself as well.because you are significant.Your heart needs love from you.

What You Can Do Today

• Say something kind to yourself.
  Do something fun for yourself.
  Take a nap when you’re tired.
  Stop apologising for everything.
  Self-love is not selfishness.It’s ingenious.

Final Words (And a Giggle)

You wouldn’t share your whole lunch, would you?So why give all your love away and keep none for yourself?
Take care of yourself.Because the best love stories start in your own heart.
P.S. I’ve learnt to love myself. And I’m really grinning.